2007年1月18日星期四

你的習慣決定你的成就

總是在搭飛機前一個晚上才熬夜打包行李?
每天晚餐一定有一道配菜叫做『電視』?
因為喜歡上網東逛西看,所以明知要早起上班,還是搞到兩點才睡?
每次買了股票都是賺一點就賣,套一點就抱?
這都是你的習慣造成的。

這些習慣會讓你「總是」在飛機上才驚覺又有什麼東西忘記帶、「總是」把閒暇時間給了電視而不是你的家人、「總是」精神不濟加上身體不好、買股「總是」就像是把錢丟水溝裡面。

你需要檢視你自己的習慣。

亞里斯多德(Aristotle)說過:『人的行為總是一再重複。因此卓越並不是單一的舉動,而是習慣。』同樣的失敗也是習慣造成,根據『一口吃不成一個胖子』定理,需要多次相同或類似行為才能成就卓越或是失敗。

好 比投資,致富需要一次一次的買低賣高,一年一年的累積獲利、大賺小賠,才能從10萬變20萬變100萬到1000萬。再好比調養身體,要把肝功能調好也是 需要每天早睡早起,長期不熬夜才能見效。(負面例子就反過來一次一次買高賣低,一年一年累積虧損、大賠小賺,才能從1000萬到1000塊)

所 以希望你可以試著在週末想一想自己每天從早到晚有哪些習慣動作或是習慣的思考模式,其中哪些是好的,哪些是不好的,把它們一一條列式寫在紙上,例如說:習 慣不吃早餐—不好;習慣熬夜打線上遊戲—不好;股票跌就抱著,漲就賣掉—不好;每次都使用信用卡循環利息—不好;習慣出門前給家人一個擁抱—好……,然後 開始一項一項的把不好的習慣改掉,好的習慣維持,一開始會很彆扭,但是俗話說得好『勉強成習慣,習慣成自然』,一次兩次、十次八次咬著牙、扯著頭髮硬幹下 去,慢慢自然就會變成不一樣的人。

不過說得簡單,做起來還真難,而且最慘的是不只把壞習慣改正過來很困難,連好習慣維持下去都不簡單,這就是為什麼卓越的人少,平庸的人多的原因。你想作哪一種人呢?

老蒋心得:三天打鱼两天晒网,这样是不行的。一会儿觉得人生空虚了就看哲学,一会儿觉得自己的钱实在太少了,又想着应该看看投资理财,或者应该看看一些经济书籍,培养自己的商业头脑。总之是头痛医头,脚痛医脚,治标不治本。
因此,我决定从今天开始,要有个总体规划才是。
当然也得找出自己的缺点,然后一步步改进。
加油,老蒋!

2007年1月14日星期日

What does love mean?


A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds,

"What does love mean?"

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her
toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got
arthritis too. That's love."

Rebecca- age 8

"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."
Billy - age 4

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."
Karl - age 5

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."
Chrissy - age 6

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age 4

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."
Danny - age 7

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss"
Emily - age 8

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,"
Nikka - age 6

(We need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."
Noelle - age 7

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."
Tommy - age 6

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
Cindy - age 8

"My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."
Clare - age 6

"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."
Elaine-age 5


"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Brad Pitt."
Chris - age 7


"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."
Mary Ann - age 4

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."
Lauren - age 4


"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." (what an image)
Karen - age 7

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
Jessica - age 8

And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a
contest he was asked to judge.

The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly
gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard,
climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

"Nothing, I just helped him cry"

2007年1月12日星期五

天上的风筝哪去了?







天上的风筝哪去了


coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Unknown拍摄.





有人说大多数的女人,都是先爱上爱情,才爱上男人的。」你说。
「那你是哪种女人?」我问。
「我是先爱上了自由,才爱上爱情的。」你回答。
然後我知道,我爱上了一个爱自由甚过一切的女人。
「我要的爱情就像放风筝,你是放风筝的人,我就是那风筝。
风筝是属於广大天空的,是自由不受拘束的,
但是,只要你需要我,一收线,我就会回到你身边。
只想把风筝放在身边的男人,风筝也就不是风筝了。」你说。
因此,爱上你,我学会不嫉妒,
因为我不能成为你囗中「自私的只想绑住女人」的男人。
所以,我必须在看着你和另一个男人亲昵谈笑时,适时的微笑。
尽管我的心已经像一条绞乾的手帕,
被拧了再拧,扭了再扭,也不敢喊痛。
尽管我的嘴角像挂了千金重的砝码,也得费尽心力的扬起一点笑意。
然後说:「原来是你的高中同学啊!难怪你们的感情那麽好。」
「是啊!」你还给了我一个天使般的灿烂笑容。
爱上你,我学会不担忧,因为我不能成为「不信任你」的男人。
所以,在深夜一两点,你终於回家时,
我不能问你:「你到底去了那里?怎麽现在才回来?」
尽管我刚刚是那样的坐立难安,紧抱着时钟望着窗外开门又关门,
尽管我恐惧的满脑是你车祸血流满地的情景,
还想着如果只是你和男孩子玩得太晚了就好了。
但是,我只是坐在沙发上拿着报纸,
对着你笑:「你一定累了。早点睡吧!」
谢谢你,因为我爱上你,我才能成为最自由的男人。
不必担心你会抓着我闻身上是否有女人的香水味,
不必编出任何晚归的藉囗,
我可以大大方方的和过去的女朋友喝茶,
因为你说:「男人也可以有女性朋友。」
但是我心里却想着:不知你现在和哪个男生在一起?
我也可以和公司客户应酬到深夜,
因为你说:「我相信你,这是你的工作。」
但是我心里焦虑着:不知你回到家了没?
然而,我必须记着:你是风筝,一个自由的风筝,
我不能成为绑住你的男人。
今晚,我的车子故障了,半夜三点才回到家。
我看到了你,泪流满面,焦虑不安的你,是我从没有见过的。
你扑进我怀里,哽咽地直说:
「吓死我了,你到哪里去了?连通电话也不打回来,我打电话问遍你所有的朋友,可是……」然後你又哭了。
我心疼地搂住你,奇怪这些话怎麽如此熟悉,
这也是我每天每天都想对你讲的话啊!
「我不晓得你会这麽担心。」我说。
「我当然担心,我担心死了,
因为你是我最爱的人啊!为什麽,你从来不担心我,不问我去哪里了呢?」
我愕然了。「我以为你喜欢自由。」
你好委屈的望着我。「我是喜欢自由啊!
但是飞得再高再远的风筝,也有想休息的时候。
你只会放风筝,却忘了收风筝。有你的支持,
休息过後的风筝才能飞得更高更远啊!
难道你忍心让风筝一个人孤独的在天上飞?」
我抱着你,突然间明白自己是世界上最傻的放风筝的人。

放风筝的自由,我现在才懂。

2007年1月10日星期三

苹果推出革命性手机产品--MacWorld实录

原文作者:business20
原文链接:Apple's Latest: Live from Macworld
译者:雷声大雨点大

Iphone_jobs03_1

译者:这篇文章是作者亲历乔布斯(Steve Jobs)发布iPhone现场的记录。过10年回头再看,谁知这是不是历史时刻呢?以下时间均为美国西岸时间1月9日上午。本文翻译完成于美国西岸时间1月9日下午。

9:17 我和同事Jon Fortt坐在“西摩斯克尼”(译者:旧金山市的一个会议中心,硅谷高科技公司的年会等等经常在这里举行)的会议厅。Jon Fortt的第一印象是,“这次MacWorld与会者和CES(译者:著名的在电子产品年会,在拉斯维加斯召开)与会者看起来很象。这说明,至少看起来 苹果越来越进入主流了。苹果用户不只是一小撮了,而是象你我一样的想对技术产品了解更多的大众。”

9:18 Steve Jobs走上讲台,穿着他注册商标式的黑色高领毛衣和蓝色牛仔裤。观众欢呼。Jobs的演讲以Apple快速转换到使用Intel芯片开始。我个人认为这是Apple得以迅速进入主流的原因之一。

9:22 Jobs 放了一段最新的“Mac Vs PC (译者:苹果电脑对阵PC机)”的广告,顺便搞笑升级到微软新一代操作系统Vista所需要的硬件升级。

9:25 Jobs 称 iTune网上音乐商店已经卖出20亿首歌,2006年就卖了12亿--每天5百万首。Apple目前是第四大(包括CD销售在内)的音乐零售商,超过亚 马逊(Amazon)。另外,Apple还卖了5千万部电视片,1百30万部电影。微软的MP3播放器Zune占有2%的市场份额,而Apple iPod占有62%(12月的数据还没出来,但Jobs说Apple的份额还在增加)

9:26 即迪斯尼之后,百乐蒙(Paramount)也开始在iTune销售电影,包括星际旅行(Star Trek)。

9:29 Apple全新的电视产品,内部产品代码iTV,正式定名为Apple TV。Apple TV 可以播放720p的高清晰视频。基于Intel处理器和40G硬盘,可以存贮50小时的视频。这个新产品可以播放iTune store 的视频,可以自动从Mac或PC上下载视频,或从5台计算机上实时播放(stream)视频。Apple过去一直用电影片花演示他们的视频软件。现在终于 可以在自己的播放器上播放了。这个产品今年2月发售,现在开始预定,市价299美元。

9:40 终于,Jobs证实了几个月以来的小道消息,宣布Apple推出一款革命性的手机--Jobs称之为“互联网交流者(Internet communicator)”。虽然Cisco(思科)已经注册了这个名字,Jobs仍旧称之为iPhone。然后Jobs开玩笑说这款手机是仿古效果 的,有一个拨号盘。

其实,这个手机是长方形的,是你从未见过的一种电话。整个前面是触摸屏,全部功能通过这个触摸屏实现。屏幕可以感测到手指移动的速度,就如同iPod的滑动轮一样。当你打电话把iPhone贴近脸时,它会自动检测到,并关闭触摸功能。

iPhone的操作系统是一个为手机定制的 Max OS X。看起来很酷。

9:46 Jobs停顿了一下,然后说到“这一天,我已经期待了两年半”。接着他列举了其他革命性的Apple产品,如1984年的Mac电脑和2001年的iPod。

9:55 iPhone 屏幕3.5英寸,每英寸160点。比摩托罗拉Q或Black Jack手机要薄。内置2兆数字照相机和iPod连接插口。加速度传感器可以检测出iPhone的位置,调整显示的横竖。看视频时,可以通过触摸屏暂停、快进等。

10:00 甲壳虫的Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club 乐队在演奏背景音乐。最近有报道甲壳虫的音乐终于将会在iTunes出售,Jobs未作证实。

10:05 Jobs 说“杀手级应用就是打电话”。iPhone可以自动和Mac电脑的地址簿进行数据同步。iPhone支持GSM/EDGE,但还不支持3G宽带。Jobs保证3G很快推出。

第一个公开通过iPhone打出的电话是打给Apple的首席设计师,Jonathan Ive的。

10:14 前美国副总统,苹果的董事之一,Al Gore(戈尔)给Jobs留言表示祝贺。Jobs通过iPhone现场播放给听众。顺便提一句,Gore 最近为Jobs在Apple员工期权丑闻中的错误进行开脱。

10:16 Yahoo与Apple联手,为iPhone用户提供“推送式”电子邮件服务。这对RIM(译者:美国一家著名移动电子邮件服务提供商,其主要产品是black berry)提供的类似收费服务是重大打击。

Jobs用来演示的iPhone屏幕已经很脏了。看来用户得经常擦拭他们的触摸屏。不是大问题,但值得考虑。

10:20 虽然我没有亲自使用触摸屏,但看起来Treo(译者:一种有字母键盘,可以收发电子邮件的手机) 要糟糕了。另外,开起来iPhone收发短信会非常容易。

iPhone支持Wi-Fi(无线局域网)和蓝牙。当检测到无线局域网络时,iPhone会自动从移动电话网络切换到Wi-Fi网络。

互联网应用包括富HTML电子邮件,Safari--Jobs称这是第一个在手机上运行的完整的网络浏览器(译者:以前手机上的网络浏览器都只能正确显示WAP网站。),另外还有Google 地图(Map)。

10:27 关于手机上的网络浏览器Jobs 说到“现在已有的产品很糟糕。把真正的网络浏览带到手机上是一个革命。”Jobs演示了在手机上浏览纽约时报网站--显示完整的页面,而不是WAP版或其他智能手机采用的古怪的格式。

10:29 Jobs用Google Map查到附近一家星巴克的电话。他假装打电话订了4000杯latte的外卖。

10:30 Jobs 演示了iPhone的互联网插件--一个进行了优化的,可以从网上索取数据(如天气,股价,地图)的应用程序。“就好比把互联网放在你口袋了”Jobs这样说。iPhone还预装了Google 搜索、地图和地球(Google Earth)。

10:31 Jobs 演示了Google 地球,聚焦放大了华盛顿纪念碑、埃费尔铁塔、罗马斗兽场。这是Google CEO 兼Apple董事Eric Schmidt 走上台。他开玩笑道,Apple和Google应该合并了,叫做“AppleGoo”。

10:39 Yahoo创始人之一,Jerry Yang 随后上台。Yang说到他想有一部iPhone,并希望Apple能采用Yahoo的新产品“OneSearch”。Jobs很聪明地平衡了Google 和Yahoo,没有让那一家独家提供iPhone的服务。而微软靠边站了。

10:45 Jobs宣布会有两款iPhone面试,4G存储499美元和8G存储599美元(同时要签两年的服务合约)。iPhone今年6月上市,2008年进入 海外市场。在解释为什么定价499美元时,Jobs说iPod Nano(译者:Apple的一款iPod MP3 播放器)市价199美元,一般的智能电话299美元。499美元正好是二者之和。Jobs说“这就把你的生活装在口袋里了”。

Jobs的目标是到2008年占有手机市场份额的1%,约1000万部手机。2006年的手机销量是10亿部。

10:46 Cigular (北美一家主要的移动电话服务运营商)的Stan Sigman上台,Jobs证实Cingular(已经成为AT&T的子公司)是Apple的独家合作伙伴。这是一个多年的独家协议。至少在 2009年以前其他移动服务商都不能卖iPhone。国际合作运营伙伴还没有公布。

10:54 站在神采四溢的Jobs旁边,Cigular的Sigman简直糟透了。他紧张地照着稿念,台下毫无呼应。

10:55 Apple从它的名字中把计算机(Computer)去掉了。这标志着Apple转型成为一个个人电子产品公司。现在的公司名为Apple Inc (译者:从苹果计算机公司改为苹果公司)。这类似几年前Dell的做法。

11:00 一则有趣的消息是思科(Cisco)告诉CNN今天他们会与Apple签约解决iPhone名字的纠纷。目前iPhone的注册商标由Cisco拥有。Cisco的公关主管Penny Bruce的声明如下:

鉴于Apple在过去几年间多次要求使用Cisco的iPhone注册商标,以及双方之间的多次讨论,我们认为Apple今天的公告(使用 iPhone名称),默认了我们昨天晚间寄给Apple的最终条款和公开声明,及其他一些细节。我们期待着今天收到Apple签署的协议。

Cisco没有公布协议细节。

11:05歌手 John Mayer上台,他说“Jobs和Apple给生活带来更多乐趣,这与恐怖主意完全相反。现在到6月1日只有3300小时了”。接着,Mayer开始演唱 “Waiting for the World to Change(等着世界改变)”。参加MacWorld的听众呢?他们在等着iPhone开始出售。

11:15 MacWorld 的主题演讲到此结束。您觉得iPhone如何?请留言讨论。

惊艳的iphone







apple的iphone


coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Unknown拍摄.





终于出现了。比以前猜测的漂亮多了。不过是苹果公司啊。
官网介绍
iPhone combines three products — a revolutionary mobile phone, a widescreen iPod with touch controls, and a breakthrough Internet communications device with desktop-class email, web browsing, maps, and searching — into one small and lightweight handheld device. iPhone also introduces an entirely new user interface based on a large multi-touch display and pioneering new software, letting you control everything with just your fingers. So it ushers in an era of software power and sophistication never before seen in a mobile device, completely redefining what you can do on a mobile phone.
iphone是三个产品的集合。超级大的触摸屏的ipod,革命性的移动电话。连接桌面和互连网络的手持移动设备。
能让你轻松的浏览网页和收发e-mail,搜索。
用手指掌控世界。

呜呜呜。。。不知道要多少钱啊。

2007年1月9日星期二

爱情经济学





































初恋
幼稚型产业,指在人生过程中,尚未拥有实现规模经济所需的经验或技术的恋爱.在学校里,该产业通常需要教师或家长的保护,施以教育与责罚等关税壁垒.其结果通常是无疾而终,并被认为是宏观调控的成功案例.

失恋
在不完全竞争、不对称信息下的时常经济必然不稳定.令狐冲原来颇得岳灵珊芳心,在华山派可谓如鱼得水,但自林平之到华山之后,他的卖方市场受到双重冲击,根据最大利益原则,买主岳不群和岳灵珊最终选择了林平之,即为其中一著名案例.

多角恋
多角恋是在资源不足的前提下发生的.该商品是稀缺资源,该经济形式属于开放经济,其结果必将产生大量的失恋者.最后胜利的人通常遭受输者的诅咒,即最高标价者为该商品支付超过它所值价钱,于是为之抑郁愤懑,并将因收益小于预期利润而影响后期恋爱的质量.败者将依成本最小原则行事,选择价格相对较低的商品.

失恋者
分摩擦性失恋和周期性失恋两种.前者因技术经验不足引起暂时性失恋,在改善以后有重新上岗机会,令狐冲即是吸取了经验教训,遂被魔教公主任盈盈购买.也有部分经验丰富者为寻求更理想配偶进行工作转换而产生,例如楚留香、陆小凤等人.周期性失恋则由总需求水平低下造成.

婚姻
长期交易,女性在GDP连续衰退之前的一种孤注一掷的选择.该交易的特点是一次性买断,套期保值.也可能是男性在为行脚与繁衍后代费用的权衡中,广度经济式的选择——即同时生产性事和子息的成本低于单独生产两种产品的成本.隶属封闭经济.

丈夫
归宿,一项或多项税收最终的经济负担者.双重收费的受害者,要为购买婚姻的权利支付一定的初始费用,向岳父家支付财礼及体力、孝心;还要为购买旗子单独支付使用费,即每个月工资奖金上交.

摘自湖南文艺出版社《婚姻爱情经济学》 作者:肖光恩

应该为你爱的人做的30件事








love

21sta上传于Yupoo, 由相机Unknown拍摄.



1、从后面抱着虾米一样的她睡觉,你做了吗?
2、真诚地说:“我爱你”,你做了吗?
3、在蓝色的地毯上坐着篮球抱着吉他为她唱歌,你做了吗?
4、她生病时陪着她照顾她,你做了吗?
5、全身心投入的接吻,你做了吗?
6、带她回你出生成长的城市,带她看你的幼儿园你的小学你的初中和高中,你做了吗?
7、给她飞翔的翅膀,你做了吗?
8、保护她远离伤害和不好的东西,你做了吗?
9、学会做她最爱吃的,你做了吗?
10、多要求自己少要求她,你做了吗?
11、冬天你用粗壮的大腿温暖她冰棍般的小脚,你做了吗?
12、每年的纪念日用你能想到的最浪漫的方式庆祝,你做了吗?
13、晚上接她回家并帮她按摩放松,你做了吗?
14、给她足够的自由空间,你做了吗?
15、一起逛超市买她爱吃的零食,你做了吗?
16、跟她拍好多贴纸照贴满手机钱包……一切经常看到的地方,你做了吗?
17、努力工作,你做了吗?
18、用突发的灵感为她写下小诗,你做了吗?
19、为她弄好早饭再吻醒她,你做了吗?
20、睡觉前给她读故事,哄她入眠,你做了吗?
21、改正自己邋遢的坏习惯,你做了吗?
22、她开心时陪她哈哈大笑,她难过时把她抱在怀里轻轻安慰,你做了吗?
23、带她见你的父母,告诉他们她让你知道什么是真爱,什么是生命的意义,你做了吗?
24、学会送花给她而不是很实际的请她吃烤肉,你做了吗?
25、一起锻炼身体并教会她三步上篮,你做了吗?
26、陪她去王府井吃遍所有小摊,你做了吗?
27、陪她看电视,你做了吗?
28、在她醒来的同时睁开眼,然后深深的吻她,你做了吗?
29、买她喜欢的戒指拿着花向她求婚,你做了吗?
30、答应我,下辈子还嫁给我”~~看着她终老并在她死后去找她……

战争








yearofthepig

coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Unknown拍摄.



看见头盔上的文字,就能感受到战争的灭绝人性。

2007年1月7日星期日










coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Canon EOS 350D DIGITAL拍摄.



湖,岸,树。
当时傻傻的,很多植物都不认识,问了宁儿很多,四月份时,从哈尔滨的冰天雪地,突然来到漳州的鸟语花香,感叹中国真的太大了。
如今,物是人非矣。

石桌








石桌

coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Canon EOS 350D DIGITAL拍摄.



一起在石桌上谈论正在草坪上拍结婚照的一对情侣,男的不咋地,女的比男的还高,呵呵。

河岸








河岸

coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Canon EOS 350D DIGITAL拍摄.



一起在河岸边坐过,开心的笑过。
突然想起来还有那辆宁儿可爱的宝马车曾停在公园外。










coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Canon EOS 350D DIGITAL拍摄.



原来回忆是无法割断的。

九龙公园








九龙公园

coodar上传于Yupoo, 由相机Canon EOS 350D DIGITAL拍摄.



以前和宁儿一起在这玩来着。
说是忘了,可是提起漳州,为什么心还是那么痛呢?

2007年1月5日星期五

2006年最变态语录

2006年最变态语录

1,人的一生就象在拉屎,有时你已经很努力了可出来的只是一个屁.
2.小时侯,我家里很穷,没钱买自行车,我只好每天打的上学。初中的时候,因为我成绩太突出,学校领导留我多读了两年。初中毕业后,高中的校长觉得我很有前途,就多收了我三万。高三的时候,班主任认为我已经有独立生存的能力,于是让我退了学。
3.某鲜花店的广告∶今日本店的玫瑰售价最为低廉,甚至可以买几朵送给太太。
4.我和超人的唯一区别是把内裤穿在里面了!
5.避孕的效果∶不成功,便成“人”。
6.我不是随便的人!但随便起来就不是人!
7.虽然你是暴牙!别自悲,暴牙很好!暴牙可以刨地瓜,下雨可以遮下巴,喝茶可以隔茶渣,野餐可以当刀叉,你说暴牙是不是顶呱呱!
8.家庭顺治、生活康熙、人品雍正、事业干隆、万事嘉庆、前途道光、财富咸丰、内外同治、千秋光绪、万众宣统!
9.我是一颗葱,站在风雨中,谁敢拿我沾大酱,X他老祖宗!走过南~闯过北~厕所后面喝过水,火车道上压过腿,还和傻子亲过嘴。上过山、打过虎~少林寺上练过武,左青龙,右白虎,常拿克林顿当二百五,还拿释迦摩尼喂老虎!金字塔上跳过舞,耶稣头上打过鼓.
10.我身在江湖,江湖却没有关于我的传说!

2007年1月3日星期三

13 Photographs That Changed the World

13 Photographs That Changed the World.





Any picture can speak 1,000 words, but only a select few say something poignant enough to galvanize an entire society. The following photographs screamed so loudly that the entire world stopped to take notice.

1. The Photograph That Raised the Photojournalistic Stakes:
"Omaha Beach, Normandy, France"
Robert Capa, 1944

"If your pictures aren’t good enough," war photographer Robert Capa used to say, "you aren’t close enough." Words to die by, yes, but the man knew of what he spoke. After all, his most memorable shots were taken on the morning of D-Day, June 6, 1944, when he landed alongside the first waves of infantry at Omaha Beach.

Caught under heavy fire, Capa dove for what little cover he could find, then shot all the film in his camera, and got out - just barely. He escaped with his life, but not much else. Of the four rolls of film Capa took of the horrific D-Day battle, all but 11 exposures were ruined by an overeager lab assistant, who melted the film in his rush to develop it. (He was trying to meet the deadline for the next issue of Life magazine.)

In an ironic twist, however, that same mistake gave the few surviving exposures their famously surreal look ("slightly out of focus," Life incorrectly explained upon printing them). More than 50 years later, director Steven Spielberg would go to great lengths to reproduce the look of that "error" for his harrowing D-Day landing sequence in "Saving Private Ryan," even stripping the coating from his camera lenses to echo Capa’s notorious shots.

2. The Photograph That Gave a Face to the Great Depression
"Migrant Mother"
Dorothea Lange, 1936

As era-defining photographs go, "Migrant Mother" pretty much takes the cake. For many, Florence Owens Thompson is the face of the Great Depression, thanks to legendary shutterbug Dorothea Lange. Lange captured the image while visiting a dusty California pea-pickers’ camp in February 1936, and in doing so, captured the resilience of a proud nation facing desperate times.

Unbelievably, Thompson’s story is as compelling as her portrait. Just 32 years old when Lange approached her ("as if drawn by a magnet," Lange said). Thompson was a mother of seven who’d lost her husband to tuberculosis. Stranded at a migratory labor farm in Nipomo, Calif. her family sustained themselves on birds killed by her kids and vegetables taken from a nearby field - as meager a living as any earned by the other 2,500 workers there. The photo’s impact was staggering. Reproduced in newspapers everywhere, Thompson’s haunted face triggered an immediate public outcry, quickly prompting politicos from the federal Resettlement Administration to send food and supplies. Sadly, however, Thompson and her family had already moved on, receiving nary a wedge of government cheese for their high-profile misery. In fact, no one knew the identity of the photographed woman until Thompson revealed herself years later in a 1976 newspaper article.

3. The Photograph That Brought the Battlefield Home
"Federal Dead on the Field of Battle of First Day, Gettysburg, Pennsylvania"
Mathew Brady, 1863

As one of the world’s first war photographers, Mathew Brady didn’t start
out having as action-packed a career as you might think. A successful daguerreotypist and a distinguished gentleman, Brady was known for his portraits of notable people such as Abraham Lincoln and Robert E. Lee. In other words, he was hardly a photojournalist in the trenches.

In fact, Brady had everything to lose by making a career move - his money, his business, and quite possibly his life. Nevertheless, he decided to risk it all and follow the Union Army into battle with his camera, saying, "A spirit in my feet said, ‘Go!’" And go he did - at least until he got a good look at the pointy end of a Confederate bayonet.

After narrowly escaping capture at the first Battle of Bull Run, Brady’s chatty feet quieted down a bit, and he began sending assistants in his place. In the span of only a few years, Brady and his team shot more than 7,000 photographs - an astounding number when you consider that developing a single plate required a horse-drawn-wagon-full of cumbersome equipment and noxious chemicals. Not exactly what you’d call "point-and-shoot."

Tethered as he was to his equine-powered darkroom and with film speeds being much slower then, Brady produced war photos that are understandably light on the action and heavy on the aftermath. Still, they mark the first time Americans were so immediately confronted with the grim realities of the battlefield.

4. The Photograph That Ended a War But Ruined a Life
"Murder of a Vietcong by Saigon Police Chief"

Eddie Adams, 1968

"Still photographs are the most powerful weapon in the world," AP photojournalist Eddie Adams once wrote. A fitting quote for Adams, because his 1968 photograph of an officer shooting a handcuffed prisoner in the head at point-blank range not only earned him a Pulitzer Prize in 1969, but also went a long way toward souring Americans’ attitudes about the Vietnam War.

For all the image’s political impact, though, the situation wasn’t as black-and-white as it’s rendered. What Adams’ photograph doesn’t reveal is that the man being shot was the captain of a Vietcong "revenge squad" that had executed dozens of unarmed civilians earlier the same day. Regardless, it instantly became an icon of the war’s savagery and made the official pulling the trigger - General Nguyen Ngoc Loan - its iconic villain.

Sadly, the photograph’s legacy would haunt Loan for the rest of his life. Following the war, he was reviled where ever he went. After an Australian VA hospital refused to treat him, he was transferred to the United States, where he was met with a massive (though unsuccessful) campaign to deport him. He eventually settled in Virginia and opened a restaurant but was forced to close it down as soon as his past caught up with him. Vandals scrawled "we know who you are" on his walls, and business dried up.

Adams felt so bad for Loan that he apologized for having taken the photo at all, admitting, "The general killed the Vietcong; I killed the general with my camera."

5. The Photograph That Isn’t as Romantic as You Might Think
"V-J Day, Times Square, 1945", a.k.a. "The Kiss"
Alfred Eisenstaedt, 1945

On August 14, 1945, the news of Japan’s surrender was announced in the United States, signaling the end of World War II. Riotous celebrations erupted in the streets, but perhaps none were more relieved than those in uniform. Although many of them had recently returned from victory in
Europe, they faced the prospect of having to ship out yet again, this time to the bloody Pacific.

Among the overjoyed masses gathered in Times Square that day was one of the most talented photojournalists of the 20th century, a German immigrant named Alfred Eisenstaedt. While snapping pictures of the celebration, he spotted a sailor "running along the street grabbing any and every girl in sight." He later explained that, "whether she was a grandmother, stout, thin, old, didn’t make any difference."

Of course, a photo of the sailor planting a wet one on a senior citizen wouldn’t have made the cover of Life, but when he locked lips with an attractive nurse, the image was circulated in newspapers across the country. Needless to say, "V-J Day" didn’t capture a highly anticipated embrace by long-lost lovers, but it also wasn’t staged, as many critics have claimed. In any case, the image remains an enduring symbol of America’s exuberance at the end of a long struggle.

6. The Photograph That Destroyed an Industry
"Hindenburg"
Murray Becker, 1937

Forget the Titanic, the Lusitania, and the comparatively unphotogenic accident at Chernobyl. Thanks to the power of images, the explosion of the Hindenburg on May 6, 1937, claims the dubious honor of being the quintessential disaster of the 20th century.

In the grand scheme of things, however, the Hindenburg wasn’t all that disastrous. Of the 97 people aboard, a surprising 62 survived. (in fact, it wasn’t even the worst Zeppelin crash of the 20th century. Just four years earlier, the U.S.S. Akron had crashed into the Atlantic killing more than twice as many people.) But when calculating the epic status of a catastrophe, terrifying photographs and quotable quotes ("Oh, the humanity!") far outweigh body counts.

Assembled as part of a massive PR campaign by the Hindenburg’s parent company in Germany, no fewer than 22 photographers, reporters, and newsreel cameramen were on the scene in Lakehurst, N.J. when the airship went down. Worldwide publicity of the well-documented disaster shattered the public’s faith in Zeppelins, which were, at the time, considered the safest mode of air travel available.

During the 1920s and 1930s, Zeppelins had operated regular flights, totting civilians back and forth between Germany and the Americas. But all of that stopped in 1937. The incident effectively killed the use of dirigibles as a commercially viable mode of passenger transport, ending the golden age of the airship not with a whimper, but with a horrific bang that was photographed and then syndicated around the globe.

7. The Photograph That Saved the Planet
"The Tetons - Snake River"
Ansel Adams, 1942

Some claim photography can be divided into two eras: Before Adams and After Adams. In Times B.A., for instance, photography wasn’t widely considered an art form. Rather, photographers attempted to make their pictures more "artistic" (i.e., more like paintings) by subjecting their exposures to all sorts of extreme manipulations, from coating their lenses with petroleum jelly to scratching the surfaces of their negatives with needles. Then came Ansel Adams, helping shutterbugs everywhere get over their collective inferiority complex.

Brashly declaring photography to be "a blazing poetry of the real," Adams eschewed manipulations, claiming they were simply derivative of other art forms. Instead, he preached the value of "pure photography." In an era when handheld point-and-shoot cameras were quickly becoming the norm, Adams and other landscape photographers clung to their bulky, old-fashioned large-format cameras. Ultimately, Adams’ pictures turned photography into fine art. What’s more, they shaped the way Americans thought of their nation’s wilderness and, with that, how to preserve it.

Adams’ passion for the land wasn’t limited to vistas he framed through the lens. In 1936, he accompanied his photos to Washington to lobby for the preservation of the Kings Canyon area in California. Sure enough, he was successful, and it was declared a national park.

8. The Photograph That Kept Che Alive
"The Corpse of Che Guevara"
Freddy Alborta, 1967

Sociopathic thug? Socialist luminary? Or as existentialist Jean-Paul Sartre called him, "the most complete human being of our age"? Whatever you believe, there’s no denying that Ernesto "Che" Guevara has become the patron saint of revolutionaries. Undeniably, he is a man of mythical status - a reputation that persists less because of how he lived than because of how he died.

Unenthused by his efforts to incite revolution among the poor and oppressed in Bolivia, the nation’s army (trained and equipped by the U.S. military and the CIA) captured and executed Guevara in 1967. But before dumping his body in a secret grave, they gathered around for a strategic photo op. They wanted to prove to the world that Che was dead, in hopes that his political movement would die with him. in fact, anticipating charges that the photo had been faked, Che’s thoughtful captors amputated his hands and preserved them in formaldehyde.

But by killing the man, Bolivian officials unwittingly birthed his legend. The photo, which circulated around the world, bore a striking resemblance to Renaissance paintings of Christ taken down from the cross. Even as Che’s killers preened and gloated above him (the officer on the right seems to be inadvertently pointing to a wound on Guevara’s body near where Christ’s final wound was inflicted), Che’s eerily peaceful face was described as showing forgiveness. The photo’s allegorical significance certainly wasn’t lost on the revolutionary protesters of the era. They quickly adopted "Che lives!" as a slogan and rallying cry. Thanks to this photograph, "the passion of the Che" ensured that he would live on forever as a martyr for the socialist cause.

9. The Photograph that Allowed Geniuses to Have a Sense of Humor
"Einstein with his Tongue Out"
Arthur Sasse, 1951

You may appreciate this memorable portrait as much as the next fellow, but it’s still fair to wonder: "Did it really change history?" Rest assured, we think it did. While Einstein certainly changed history with his contributions to nuclear physics and quantum mechanics, this photo changed the way history looked at Einstein. By humanizing a man known chiefly for his brilliance, this image is the reason Einstein’s name has become synonymous not only with "genius," but also with "wacky genius."

So why the history-making tongue? It seems Professor Einstein, hoping to enjoy his 72nd birthday in peace, was stuck on the Princeton campus enduring incessant hounding by the press. Upon being prodded to smile for the camera for what seemed like the millionth time, he gave photographer Arthur Sasse a good look at his uvula instead. This being no ordinary tongue, the resulting photo became an instant classic, thus ensuring that the distinguished Novel Prize-winner would be remembered as much for his personality as for his brain.

10. The Photograph That Made the Surreal Real
"Dalí Atomicus"
Philippe Halsman, 1948

Philippe Halsman is quite possibly the only photographer to have made a career out of taking portraits of people jumping. But he claimed the act of leaping revealed his subjects’ true selves, and looking at his most famous jump, "Dalí Atomicus," it’s pretty hard to disagree.

The photograph is Halsman’s homage both to the new atomic age (prompted by physicist’ then-recent announcement that all matter hangs in a constant state of suspension) and to Dalí’s surrealist masterpiece "Leda Atomica" (seen on the right, behind the cats, and unfinished at the time). It took six hours, 28 jumps, and a roomful of assistants throwing angry cats and buckets of water into the air to get the perfect exposure.

But before settling on the "Atomicus" we know today, Halsman rejected a number of other concepts for the shot. One was the idea of throwing milk instead of water, but that was abandoned for fear that viewers, fresh from the privations of World War II, would condemn it as a waste of milk. Another involved exploding a cat in order to capture it "in suspension," though that arguably would have been a waste of cats.

Halsman’s methods were as unique as they were effective. His celebrity "jump" portraits appeared on at least seven Life magazine covers and helped usher in a new - and radically more adventurous - era of portrait photography.

11. The Photograph That Lied
"Loch Ness Monster" a.k.a. "The Surgeon’s Photo"
Ian Wetherell, 1934

While strange sightings around Scotland’s murky Loch Ness date back to 565 C.E., it wasn’t until photography reached the Loch that Nessie Fever really took off. The now-legendary (and legendarily blurry) "surgeon’s photo," reportedly taken in April of 1934, fueled decades of frenzied speculation, several costly underwater searches, and a local tourism industry that rakes in several million dollars each year.

But the party almost ended in 1994, when a report was published saying that model-maker Christian Spurling admitted to faking the photo. According to Spurling’s statement, his stepfather, Marmaduke Wetherell, worked as a big game hunter and had been hired by London’s Daily Mail to find the beast. But rather than smoke out the creature, he decided to fake it. Wetherell, joined by Spurling and his son, Ian, built their own monster to float on the lake’s surface using a toy submarine and some wood putty. Ian actually took the photo, but to lend more credibility to the story, they convinced an upstanding pillar of the community - surgeon Robert Kenneth Wilson - to claim it as his own. Just goes to prove the old adage, "The camera never lies." People, on the other hand, do.

12. The Photograph That Almost Wasn’t
"Gandhi at his Spinning Wheel"
Margaret Bourke-White, 1946

"Gandhi at his Spinning Wheel," the defining portrait of one of the 20th century’s most influential figures, almost didn’t happen, thanks to the Mahatma’s strict demands. Granted a rare opportunity to photograph India’s leader; Life staffer Margaret Bourke-White was all set to shoot when Gandhi’s secretaries stopped her cold: If she was going to photograph Gandhi at the spinning wheel (a symbol for India’s struggle for independence), she first had to learn to use one herself.

But that wasn’t all. The ascetic Mahatma wasn’t to be spoken to (it being his day of silence.) And because he detested bright light, Bourke-White was only allowed to use three flashbulbs. Having cleared all these hurdles, however, there was still one more - the humid Indian weather, which wreaked havoc on her camera equipment. When time finally came to shoot, Bourke-White’s first flashbulb failed. And while the second one worked, she forgot to pull the slide, rendering it blank.

She thought it was all over, but luckily, the third attempt was successful. In the end, she came away with an image that became Gandhi’s most enduring representation. it was also among the last portraits of his life; he was assassinated less than two years later.

13. The Photograph That Foreshadowed the Future
"Le Violon d’Ingres"
Man Ray, 1924

Before there was photoshop, there was Man Ray. One of the world’s most original photographers, Ray was tireless experimenter. In fact, his work was so inventive that he eventually left the camera behind altogether, creating his surreal "Rayographs" entirely in the darkroom.

"Le Violon d’Ingres" is perhaps his best-known photograph, and one of his earliest. Like many pieces from the Dada movement (which Ray is credited with bringing to the United States), it’s a visual pun. By drawing f-holes on his model’s back, he points out the similarities between the body of a woman and the body of a violin. But it’s a literal pun, as well. Both the model’s dress and pose echo a famous painting by French artist Jean-Auguste-Dominiqe Ingres, whose hobbies were depicting female nudes and playing the violin.

More than just highbrow it, however, Ray’s work was far ahead of its time. By ridiculing a now-obsolete concept - the photographic image as literal interpretation of reality - his pictures foreshadowed our own digital revolution.

__________

The article above was written by Ransom Riggs for the Jan - Feb 2007 issue of mental_floss magazine, featured on Neatorama in partnership with mental_floss.


可爱的小狗

可爱的小狗

在台湾很火的一组图

可爱的小狗










2007年1月1日星期一

新年第一次





me


coodar上传于Yupoo.



今天陪旭去买cannon A540,先小试牛刀。
丑了一点,见笑了。

回首2006


THE BEGINNING


还来不及回首2006,2007就到了。
决定来一次总回顾,忘却过去,展望未来。
2006,
在学校,期待着出来,出来后就可以和自己爱的人在一个城市,可以正常的谈恋爱了,不会因为讨厌的距离而让自己痛苦。现在我才发现,距离不仅仅是空间上的,还包括心灵上的距离。
因为等不及要与她在一起,我从哈尔滨去了漳州,用家里给我找工作的钱,在她那里生活了一个月。然后离去。接着还是距离,分手。好像一切都注定了一样,可是我还是投入了百分百的激情,不管结局如何,起码我努力过,曾和她一起生活过了。好像飞蛾扑火一样,爱得很痴狂。留下了一段回忆,然后随着时光慢慢消逝。
在福州,终于又见面了,可是见面的方式却很糟糕。毕业离校,回家呆了十天都不安心,不甘心就这么失去她,我想见她最后一面,我以为只是空间距离的关系,让她决定离开我,我要她当面跟我说,让我彻底的私心也好。在我的万般请求下,终于答应见我了。
福州只是中转站,我真正要去的地方却是山东,去一个我还没毕业时,就签下就业协议书的企业的所在地。
见面时已经可以感觉到她的冷淡了,我的心都凉了,只是一直安慰自己,也许她会回心转意,一切不好的都会过去。
那天居然还下着小雨,实在太符合我的心境了。
等她等到都快绝望的时候,她终于来汽车站接我。当时真的是高兴的都快跳起来了,只是看到她冷冰冰的脸,让我觉得热脸贴冷屁股的感觉,比喻不大好却很贴切。
相对无言,坐一辆的士到了她宿舍。
果不其然,没有几分钟,一个男的出现了,出现的很嚣张,我一直是知道他的存在的,只是我一直当作他不存在而已,要不然心里可能会很不平静,不肯相信自己爱的人居然会背着自己,和其他男生在一起。而我们分开也只不过几个月而已。果然爱情是有保险期的。
一直到前不久我才决定放弃一个会三心两意的她,给她这样定性,总觉得不大好。毕竟她是已经和我分手后才和他在一起的,不是吗?但是毕竟和我想象中的爱情差太多,爱情的保质期真的太短了。
小说里倒是经常出现这样的情况,只是我一直都是嗤之以鼻的,天荒地老的爱情才是我心里真正的爱情。
如今真的让我碰上了。还真的很难接受。
她和他在一起,却对我说她还是不承认他是她男朋友,可是他们之间却有了男女朋友的事实。
这更让我难于接受,既然你不承认,那你为什么还要和他在一起呢?在一起之后,却又不承认。
原来她也是那种女生,玩弄男生的女生。假如你碰到你值得一心一意去爱的另外一个男人,你就无情的把他舍弃吗?
我的观点是,爱就一心一意的去爱,不爱就拉倒,讨厌所谓的暧昧。
离题了,呵呵,可能是潜意识里,不肯回忆那段让人伤心的往事。很没面子。
可是既然决定了做一个为了忘却的纪念。还是把那段回忆写出来,免得憋在心里怪难受的。
他的出现,直接导致了我们俩的火爆对立,刚开始还能假惺惺的装作无所谓。可能是因为他觉得她不应该去接我,他很恼火吧。他直接把她拉近了房间,关上门,在里面不知道说了些什么,不过听得出来是吵架,简直是视我为无物,怎能让心高气傲的我能平静下来,我踹了门,刚开始还没什么,后来他也火了,我想冲进去,他又不让我进,两个人直接就干上了,结果当然是我占优势,要不是他说不干了,我还想继续揍他呢,不过其实我们俩是打得都快没力气了,他的眼睛被我揍得变成了黑熊猫,哈哈。不是我在这耀武扬威,对手可是自诩为足球队精英的,呵呵。当然我的情况也不是很乐观,把他揍得太重,间接的连累到自己的手了,动不了了,可能是用力过猛,肌肉拉伤。
不说详细过程了,我知道她在那种情况下很难,可是她总得表个态吧,她到底是爱谁的!可能是两个都不爱,在那看热闹,呵呵。
她无动于衷的表情让我很恼火,怎么说我也是她的前男友吧。最气愤的是后来他们又在小房间里叽叽咕咕的,把我排除在外,我控制不住,又去揣门了,传来了是她的怒吼了,她说再踹她就不客气了之类的话。我无地自容啊,离开了她的宿舍,一个人在楼下的小街道上淋雨,让自己的心情平静下来。
还好雨水起了点作用,我又装作若无其事的回到了她的宿舍,在门外等他们商量国计民生结束。
后来那个男的离开了,留下了我,我也不知道该怎么处理我和她之间的关系了,不过对她真的很失望,只不过我在福州举目无亲的,没地方可去,只能留在那里了。我想她可能也很尴尬吧。
后来我请她去吃了麦当劳,可是我却一点东西都吃不下,我们俩又相对无言了。可能是太久没见面的缘故,也可能是刚刚发生的事让我们俩都不知道该如何是好。
而我还是一直在挣扎,毕竟要自己一下子就放弃一个自己曾经深爱的人,实在是做不多。思想老是在反复。
放与不放,这是值得思考的问题。
只是那种情况也由不得自己不放了。在她家吃了晚饭。然后她送我离开,其间她说的一句话,让我很懊恼,她说我只能给她带来麻烦。唉。。。
临上车前,我从我的钱包里,把一直珍藏着的一张她的照片,还给她了,意思是我们以后再也不用来往了。然后就直接上了车,不敢看她。
在宾馆里,等我洗清自己的伤口,生理上的和心理上的,真的是疲惫至极。可是脑子里就是无法消散关于to be or not to be的问题。挣扎中在一间陌生而无甚好感的小房间里睡去,临睡前还告诉她我决定放弃了。
第二天一醒过来,还是不由自主地,双脚往她的宿舍跑去,凭着自己记忆,我虽然只去过一次,当我一向很自豪自己的方向感。呵呵。找到了她的住所。
是那宿舍里另外一个房客的小孩帮我开的门,然后我蹑手蹑脚的进了她的房间,她睡觉的样子还是那么天真无邪,让我一下子又回到了我们以前一起相处的日子。感觉很亲切,情不自禁的又吻了她。她没拒绝。
然后问我为什么又出尔反尔,来她这里做什么?
我说我想你了。
后来我们之间的关系缓和了许多。
我是下午一点的火车,我到她那里时已经快十一点了。没过多久,她就送我到火车站了。
在火车站旁的一个小餐馆里,我们一吃了最后的午餐。
临上我火车的时候,我真的好舍不得她,又情不自禁的想吻她,只是她躲闪了。
最后一面现在我已忘得差不多了。
只是当时的我,一直在火车里翻来覆去睡不着,脑子里想的都是她,可是我有没有可以倾诉的对象,简直都快疯了。
经常性的会呆呆的看她忘了带走的雨伞发呆。
火车行驶了三十二个小时才到了兖州,我还得坐的士到邹城,当时到达的时候是晚上十二点了,找了一家宾馆,我为了省钱,住的是三人间的,当时还有一个陌生人。
一下子,一种强烈的恐惧感,和对她的思念涌上心头。
我当时就骂自己,为什么要来这个破地方,离她那么远?
也许那一晚就已经注定了我会离开邹城。
后来后悔了,到公司报到的时候,才知道原来住宾馆是可以报销的。郁闷。。。。。
在兖矿集团绎化公司的两个月里,其实还是很开心的。
在那里我认识了富伟力和她的女朋友,他们之间的感情才让我长大了,我才知道真正的爱情该是什么样子。
他们俩是华东理工的。应该说华东理工的化工还是比较强的。
本来他女朋友在上海已经找到一家公司,工资有三千多。待遇应该说还不错。
只是为了和他在一起,她才放弃了很多,陪他来到了那个小地方。
和他们在一起,很开心,他们都把我当弟弟一样照顾我。
后来我们都选择了离开。
他说他不能让她受苦,他自己受苦没关系,于是又回到了上海打拼。
而我也追随他们的脚步,离开了邹城,来到了厦门。
本来想去福州的,只是我觉得我不能让她小看了,我不想让她觉得我是为了她才去福州的,作为一个男人很没面子,而且福州给我的影像也很不好。
于是我来到了厦门。
期间
在厦门
找工作也郁闷了一个多月,还好挺过来了。
现在已经比较稳定了。只是一个人还是觉得比较孤单。
还有一些匆忙离开留下来的后遗症,因为档案户口还留在公司,现在我是黑户一个。
而对她,我从刚来厦门时的,为了她的幸福,也许我应该是隐身的,隐身了一段时间。
到后来,我也慢慢想通了,她已经不是我爱的那个为了爱奋不顾身的宁宁了,我一直以为她会分手都怪我自己,原来大部分她还是有私心的,彻底的抛开我,她才能重新开始。而我却一直活在对自己的忏悔中,一位自己改好了,她就会回到自己的身边。
我恨她的三心二意!
当然我自身也有条件限制,她又何必爱我?
那就让她去爱她的,我去寻找我的幸福吧。

原来,放下也是一种幸福。



MEMORY IS THE END.

TODAY IS THE BEGINNING.









新的一年



2006发生太多,不及留意就悄然而逝。
2007从今开始,我要把它留在图文里。